Dealing with messes 101

I had this incident yesterday at work where I ended up feeling overlooked, overstepped, and NOT considered. People mean well. They really do. I like that about these knucklehead fellas I work with... BUT whoa baby can we all approach situations differently and reach entirely different conclusions in the process. Holy cow. I'd love to spell it all out and give you a play by play of the "incident" but that isn't necessary. Sometimes being the only woman on a construction team is too much.....